GiST2 – 211/365

23 July 10 | 15 comments

  1. The Sex.
  2. Spending time with my husband, including the non-sex time, before heading to work is a really nice thing.
  3. Heaps of ebooks to read. Now I just need to find TIME to read them!
  4. Clean laundry – already put away.
  5. Sleeping and being awakened by my beloved husband on his return from work.

15 comments

  1. Kitty’s avatar

    Kitty on 25 July 10 at 12:25 pm

    damn you and “the sex”.

    I have been trying.

    I really have.

    I just received a new toy – so I’m hoping that is inspiring.

    1. violet’s avatar

      violet on 26 July 10 at 9:14 am

      Is the problem the desire to have “the sex” or the actual having of it? We must talk!

      1. Sylvain’s avatar

        Sylvain on 26 July 10 at 10:36 am

        three way conversation? :-)

        1. Kitty’s avatar

          Kitty on 26 July 10 at 12:25 pm

          Just a conversation Syl?

          The desire.

          The time.

          The energy.

          And when the act does happen – not great for me.

          1. violet’s avatar

            violet on 26 July 10 at 12:44 pm

            I probably shouldn’t be sitting here thinking of this as a personal challenge, huh?

            1. Kitty’s avatar

              Kitty on 26 July 10 at 4:26 pm

              my partner says I’m not allowed to date you.

              1. violet’s avatar

                violet on 26 July 10 at 4:35 pm

                Who said anything about *dating*? WHO HAS TIME TO DATE?!

                1. Kitty’s avatar

                  Kitty on 26 July 10 at 5:43 pm

                  I’m not allowed to have sex with you either.

                  Something about his view of our marriage.

                  Sigh.

                  (tee hee – glad this isn’t on FB)

                  1. violet’s avatar

                    violet on 26 July 10 at 5:56 pm

                    I am going to need him to clearly define “sex” for me.. :)

                    1. R.’s avatar

                      R. on 26 July 10 at 8:00 pm

                      These comments are depressing me. I’m going to go watch yo gabba-gabba and eat a bucket of ice-cream.

  2. Michelle Parker’s avatar

    Michelle Parker on 26 July 10 at 3:10 pm

    I think ho-hum sex is a common problem. Luckily, in and of itself it does not make or break a marriage. But Good Sex is just fun. I know ours hasn’t been the same for me since my 2nd pregnancy. At least not consistently. Not sure if it’s the changes in my body, age, or just a lack of time and energy when dealing with 3 kids.

  3. Kitty’s avatar

    Kitty on 27 July 10 at 10:39 pm

    Sorry R. Didn’t mean to depress you.

    I’m trying. That counts, right?

    1. R.’s avatar

      R. on 28 July 10 at 11:09 am

      Awww. Nothing personal. My marital obligation doesn’t provide the option to propose a bit of sexual sport with violet and co. either.

  4. violet’s avatar

    violet on 28 July 10 at 11:30 am

    Actually, it’s the THOUGHT that counts. If you’ll settle for THINKING about some sexual sport with violet & co., it’s all good. (That way violet doesn’t feel too creepy for thinking the sexy thoughts about other people. :)

    1. R.’s avatar

      R. on 28 July 10 at 9:11 pm

      Oh please. You’re not any more creepy than any other person with a libido and a pulse.

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